Tackling the Conversation about Assisted Living with Aging Parents

Talking to your parents about moving to assisted living can be tough, but it doesn’t have to be stressful. Start by doing a bit of homework. Look up different assisted living options and find out what they offer, how much they cost, and what other people say about them. This way, you’ll be ready to answer any questions your parents might have. Sharing positive stories about people you know who’ve moved to assisted living can also help make the idea more relatable and less scary.

When you’re ready to bring it up, pick a good time when everyone is relaxed. Don’t try to squeeze it in during a busy family event or when someone is having a bad day. Find a quiet, comfortable place to talk. Let your parents know that you’re bringing this up because you care about them and want the best for them. Use specific examples to show why you’re worried, like if they’ve had trouble with daily tasks or had a recent health issue. Make sure to listen to their concerns and feelings without interrupting or dismissing them.

Try to include your parents in the decision-making process as much as possible. Suggest visiting a few assisted living facilities together and talk with healthcare providers to help them feel more in control. Point out the positives of assisted living, like more social opportunities, better safety, and easier access to medical care. Emphasize that this move is about improving their quality of life, not taking away their independence. By being patient and understanding, you can help them see the benefits and make the transition smoother!

We are also here to be a free resource to you and your family on every step of this journey. If this is a phase you find yourself in and you would appreciate a reliable place to receive help or information, give us a call at 407-765-2135!